Social worker: “Well, having someone in the family who is sick can be very stressful for everyone. It’s completely understandable that “being strong” right now is very hard. Many women have a hard time letting their kids see this side of their illness. Maybe if we could talk together, and if they understood more, there would be less tension and pushing, the stress might decrease for everyone.”
Mrs. G: “The doctor suggested we have a family meeting, could you be there too?”
Social worker: “Yes of course.”
Mrs. G: “Do you think both my son and daughter should come?”
Social worker: “Yes, it is probably going to be most helpful that they both understand your situation and find a way to support you in what you need right now. What do you think? And it sounds like your daughter might need some support too.”
Mrs. G: “Yes, I agree… they both should be there. I hate to have them argue about things. I need them both, you’re right. Thank you for understanding and being willing to help them.”
Social worker: “You’re welcome, that’s what we are here for, to help you and your family. I’ll talk to the team and Denise and Joseph and set up a meeting.”
Recommended reading
- Zilberfein, F and Hurwitz, E. 2004. Clinical Social Work Practice at the End of Life in J. Berzoff and P. Silverman, Living with Dying: A Handbook for End-of-Life Healthcare Practitioners, Chapter 15, New York: Columbia University Press.